Authentic astrologer
. Astrologers are mostly on an
ego trip and it is very difficult to find an authentic astrologer. More often
than not, you just find people willing to cheat you of your money. You should
only trust an astrologer on a case to case basis depending on whether talking
to the person makes a difference in your life. Astrology and astrologers cannot
collectively be trusted as a community/subject.
. If you notice MOST OF the astrologers are completely incapable of
accepting that they don’t know everything in astrology and they
would not have
studied the subject for example . If I say the earth is flat, will
you consider me intelligent or stupid? In any subject, you cannot defy the
fundamental principles and many of
the astrologers fail to understand astrology and
in fact astrology is based
on certain calculation and
it has its
own base . But in astrology, you
can say anything you want. if someone disagrees with you, or shows you proof to
the contrary, you can end the argument by saying “You can stick to your method,
I will stick to mine.” This is what primarily destroys astrology. No one is
ready to see the truth, everyone is happy with their own version of the lie. It
doesn’t matter what theory is actually correct, all it matters is that whatever
I am following is the ultimate truth even if someone proves otherwise. Most
astrologers have an inability to learn or
lack patience to
learn the subject and ultimately just to conceal their inadequacy they act
like a clairvoyant giving
out stupid predictions
which you might
have come across in
TV or suggesting the client
to perform yagana yaga
etc to fleece gullible people .
Astrologers rarely have
consultancy skills. In a profession dealing with clients, one should know how
to talk to a client and how to deal with a question. The objective of an
astrologer is to help the client on his path. If the person is going through a
turmoil, an astrologer’s word must be supportive and encouraging. If the person
is arrogant and proud, an astrologer should be harsh enough to keep them
grounded. Predictions only matter in rare situations when you want the other
person to trust you and I keep
on telling that it should
be done only
after analysing the
chart . But once the person trusts and believes you, being true is not
very much required, Being helpful
becomes more important. for example You cannot tell a newly wed person that he’ll get divorced. You have
to talk in a way that it doesn't create a mess for them in their life. And this
is what astrologers often miss. They don’t know what to say, what not to say
and how to help a client.
One more
important observation you
might have seen is
most of the Astrologers don’t listen. This is the
most fundamental problem with astrologers,
. Astrologers never listen
to the client, to their actual question, to their actual problem. They either
just keep talking themselves, or interrupt you saying they already know what
you are going through, or just give predictions/answers absolutely not
connected to what you wanted to ask. They even talk irrelevant stuff. If you’re
having trouble in your married life, and your question is whether you should
work on it or not, they would often dive into what is your strength and
weakness as a person or what type of partners you should be with. As to what
you should do, they would either avoid talking about it, or just simply say in
a definitive way that the relationship will end. Either of these things may be
fine, but none of it solves your problem or helps you in what to do in the
situation.
There is a simple test to knowing
whether someone is a good astrologer or not. First, the astrologer should
listen to you, to your problem. Whenever he talks, his words should show that
he has heard your problem and his advice is customized to your situation and
not vague generalized stuff. He should know and appreciate your situation
before he starts talking about it.
Second, talking to an astrologer
should be soothing. That is the primary purpose of a consultation. When he give
exact predictions, they should be accurate.[This should be
done only after analysing
birth chart ] But when he talks about the situation and advise you, or
suggests a course of action, or gives you a choice rather than an accurate
prediction then his words/voice should have a soothing effect on you. Lastly,
irrespective of what he said, the conversation should end with your exact query
being taken care of.
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